A Short Term Boyfriend

A short term boyfriend ,  I mean fling

Ok , anybody feel in Love.. Of course we do.. When you travel you would find that hot guy/ girl that maybe not exist in your own daily life but they do exist  in your vacation. That handsome model / pretty girl that you see in magazine or that pretty and kind girl in drama and that rich, handsome boy that only live in Dramaland.

But in real life that kind of person not exist! And yes that kind of type kind extict .. that hot , handsome,kind, only see you in life,downtoearth, crazy about you, honest, ok lets  say that kind of guy that you want to marry or spend your life with.

Ok back to short term fling. In my own case is not about how handsome he is, is he rich?, funny?,sweet?.The answer is i don’t even know..

Let’s back of that time when i’m backpacking to South Korea on 2011, that time me and my friend is going to Sokcho that place is famous for 1 place Mountain Seoraksan ! so if you visit South Korea you should go to this place!! And during my stay in Sokcho i stay in one hostel called The House, when i visited the hostel  the owner of the hostel is have some urgent bussines and he will back in the fternoon, and this guy (who gonna be my next holidayfling) doesn’t speak english and only speak korean.   The down thing is we are super tired and can’t move!! We just want to lie down in our bed just take a quick nap and go to find some snack. 

And we in the lobby of thehostel trying to communicate with him with limited Korean + a LOT of body language. Regradless everything we do (the body language ) and the Communication (that will be our limited Korean) He doesn’t understand at all.. and after 45minutes tiring and helpess conversation. I asked him question about why can’t he speak chinese, I know it’s kinda random but believe me.. GOD work in so many ways during my trip in Korea. (sudden religious)

And the shocked thing is he is Chinese, i mean a China guy who study in Sokcho.Beside study he also working in the house hostel as part-timer. And we did talk about my reservation.. and he said yes he had our reservation and he said sorry abut his limited english that he cannot understand what we told him.. i said it’s okay ..  and that moment when i think i like him.

But that kind of feeling is weird.. i’m kinda wanted to see him more and more.. i will be super honest ~ i’m tired and wanted to lay in my bed but that time i didn’t do that. I want to see him even just a glimpse ;) and the funny thing is my friend Vina who is my roomate also like him.. so we took a glimpse of him together and try to talk with him.

And  When vina is not around i’m trying to stalking him in the lobby just see him make me happy. LOL, and my other  friend Fahad help me out too .. haha xD actually it was super hillarious and funny.. he also take a glimpse and told me about him. But he also giving me advice about holiday fling maybe not gonna working out.and also he ask about what is so good about him that make me like him. And that time with confidence i told him that he’s quite handsome, kind, hardworking and e can speak chinese(ALL IS LAME REASON)

Ok let’s move on That afternoon we want to eat some buffet dinner and we need to know the restaurant so we ask the owner Mr.Kim who available during that time. And he standing beside Mr.Kim ,attentively listening about our conversation  but i know he doesn’t understand that much ;p. That time when we want to go out my friend mike told some korean  word to vina.. they talking and vina want to learn some korean words because he want to talk to mr.China. and Mike teach her to speak Jagiya~ which mean my Love/husband. And that time i don’t know i think i hate mike for some reason (that stupid fling). And that time vina doesn’t know the meaning behind Jagiya, she just talk recklessly. And it super funny.. in slow motion i can see Mr Kim looking at vina with puzzled look and other friend who beside vina laughing so loud. And there’s Vina with dumbfounded looks and puzzled look. I think Mr Kim mistook the person who Vina called is him but Mr, China is actually the one.

With Vina action our night is full of laughter after we have buffet the next morning we will visit MT.Seoraksan but the thing is the i’m not feeling well so i’m not going to Mt.Seoraksan. That morning i met him and i smile. I want to talk but know that he wil be busy with all of the job so i just passed him by.. after having my breakfast i’m going take a walk around the town and shortly going back to hostel. The owner Mr.Kim nudge me about the check out time. It almost the time to check out but all of my friend is stil in MT.Seorak and on their way to go back..

Feel sorry to the owner I pack my belongings and put them down on my way to bringing down the lugage he help me packing all things and bringing down all things (that time i think how sweet of him and truthfully now i think he just doing his job ) with the last baggage that he want to bringing down i began to talk with him asking his facebook.. and you know what is thefirst time i ask a boy first!  It took me by surprise how blunt,crazy and short mind that i had.. with his name on my facebook a smile is pestered to my face. After checking out from hostel on my way to another city he message me. Asking me why i stay for 1 day, and why i’m not extend my stay. That day i think that he want to meet me but the truth could be he want guest to come maybe it will help his part time income. Who knows? Good/bad intention. Having him  as holiday fling is a cute and funny story for myself. We still contact during and after my stay. Now, he teaching me some mandarin.. haha xD some fling can be friend too. He’s not in Korea right now and there is a time when he ask me to visit China to meet him.

I don’t know holiday fling can be possible or not. I know a lot of possible fling happened but in my case i choose not too. Imagine that long distance relationship that will you overcome. Can you handle that? And yes i got cute korean guy who happen show where his home at when asking him about what station i should go if i want go to dongdaemun.. it’s suprising and cute. If i met him who knows if i met him i will ask the way to his home?  *just kidding*

And for the conclusion  What did i get from holiday fling? Another me is appear talk about that blunt,sassy and crazy girl that inside me coming out. It was fun and cute one.. so will Holiday work out for you? Nobody knows how about try by yourself?

~Oly~